The general notion at work here is the completion of a measure.
$\newcommand{\R}{\mathbb{R}} \newcommand{\B}{\mathcal{B}}$
Let's write $\B$ for the Borel $\sigma$-algebra on $\R$. If $\mu$ is a positive Borel measure on $\R$ (i.e. a countably additive set function $\mu : \B \to [0,\infty]$), let $\B_\mu$ be the $\sigma$-algebra generated by $\B$ together with the sets $\{A \subset B : B \in \B, \mu(B) = 0\}$ (i.e. throw in all subsets of sets with measure zero). This is called "completing $\B$ with respect to $\mu$", and of course $\mu$ has a natural extension to $\B_\mu$. When we take $\mu$ to be Lebesgue measure $m$, $\B_m$ is precisely the Lebesgue $\sigma$-algebra.
In this notation, I think your questions are as follows:
Is $\B_m \subset \B_\mu$ for every $\mu$?
If not, is there a measure $\mu$ with $\B_\mu = \B$?
For 1, the answer is no. As you suspect, the Cantor measure $\mu_C$ is a counterexample. If $C$ is the Cantor set and $f : C\to [0,1]$ is the Cantor function, then we can write $\mu_C(B) = m(f(B))$. If $A \notin \B_m$ is a non-Lebesgue measurable set, then $f^{-1}(A) \notin \B_{\mu_C}$. But $f^{-1}(A) \subset C$ and $m(C) = 0$, so $f^{-1}(A) \in \B_m$.
For the second question, the answer is yes, sort of. One example is counting measure $\mu$ which assigns measure 1 to every point (hence measure $\infty$ to every infinite set). Here the only set of measure 0 is the empty set, which is already in $\B$, so $\B_\mu = \B$. Another example is a measure which assigns measure 0 to every countable (i.e. finite or countably infinite) set, and measure $\infty$ to every uncountable set. Now the measure zero sets are all countable, hence so are all their subsets, but all countable sets are already Borel.
Note these are not Lebesgue-Stieltjes measures, because they give infinite measure to every nontrivial interval.
In fact, suppose $\mu$ is a measure such that $\B_\mu = \B$. Then I claim every uncountable Borel set $B$ has $\mu(B) = \infty$. Suppose $B$ is an uncountable Borel set. It is known that such $B$ must have a subset $A$ which is not Borel. If $\mu(B) = 0$, then $A \in \B_\mu \backslash \B$, which we want to avoid. So we have to have $\mu(B) > 0$. On the other hand, it is also known that an uncountable Borel set can be written as an uncountable disjoint union of uncountable Borel sets. Each of these must have nonzero measure, so this forces $\mu(B) = \infty$. In particular $\mu$ is not Lebesgue-Stieltjes.
So in fact, any Lebesgue-Stieltjes measure has measure-zero sets with non-Borel subsets, and hence can be properly extended by taking the completion.
A closely related idea is that of universally measurable sets, which are those sets $B$ which are in $\B_\mu$ for every finite (or, equivalently, every $\sigma$-finite) measure $\mu$. There do exist universally measurable sets which are not Borel. On the other hand, the above example with Cantor measure shows that there are Lebesgue measurable sets which are not universally measurable.
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Some observations: this topology is ccc (in $(\mathbb{R}, \mathcal{T})$, every family of pairwise disjoint non-empty open subsets is at most countable), e.g. because of the $\sigma$-finiteness of the Lebesgue measure. But it's not separable (so also not second countable), as every countable set is closed (being measure $0$, or a null set). So it's certainly not metrisable (see e.g. my answer here which implies that ccc implies separable for second metrisable spaces). It is not Lindelöf as the Cantor set is uncountable closed and discrete as a subspace.
It's Hausdorff, being finer than the Euclidean topology, but not normal or regular because you cannot separate $\sqrt{2}$ from the closed set $\mathbb{Q}$.
It's not first countable, by a diagonalisation argument: if $U_n, n \in \omega$ would be a local base at $x$, for each $n$ pick $p_n \in U_n\setminus \{x\}$ and note that no $U_n$ is contained in the open neighbourhood $\mathbb{R}\setminus \{p_n: n \in \omega\}$ of $x$. In fact any convergent sequence in this space is eventually constant, just like we can show for the coarser co-countable topology.
So it's a pretty badly behaved topology in all. I seem to recall it has some standard name, but I cannot recall it right now. I found one paper online that considers it and calls it the "essential topology" on $\mathbb{R}$.