[Math] Transitivity and symmetry does not imply reflexivity counterexample

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I am not understanding the following counterexample (found in a solutions manual) for a transitive and symmetric relation that is not reflexive.

Consider set $A = \{1,2,3\}$. Then $R = \{(1, 3), (3, 1), (1, 1), (3, 3)\}$ is symmetric and transitive, but not reflexive. The definition of a symmetric relation is for all elements x and y in set A, if $xRy$ then $yRx$. Clearly 2 is an element of A, but it is not symmetric according to the definition. And doesn't the existence of $(1, 1)$ and $(3, 3)$ point to reflexivity of R?

Best Answer

Consider the null set as your relation.