As pointed out already, this is equivalent to showing that $\mathbb{Z[^3\sqrt{2}]}$ is the ring of integers of $\mathbb{Q[^3\sqrt{2}]}$
If not, then the discriminant of the actual ring of integers will divide the discriminant of $\mathbb{Z[^3\sqrt{2}]}$, which is -108, by a square factor. The only squares dividing -108 are 4 and 9.
It is sufficient to check that $\frac{1 + ^3\sqrt{2} + ^3\sqrt{4}}{x}$ is not an algebraic integer for $x = 2,3$. The norm will give you this answer:
$$N(\frac{1 + ^3\sqrt{2} + ^3\sqrt{4}}{x}) = \frac{1 +2 + 4 - 6}{x^3} = \frac{1}{x^3}$$
Clearly not an integer for $x = 2,3$, so $\frac{1 + ^3\sqrt{2} + ^3\sqrt{4}}{x}$ is not an algebraic integer in these cases and the ring of integers must be $\mathbb{Z[^3\sqrt{2}]}$.
This is the general idea. You can find out more here (page 34 onwards):
http://www.jmilne.org/math/CourseNotes/ANT210.pdf
I assume everything takes place in a number field $K/\Bbb Q$ with $[K:\Bbb Q]=n$. Let $\{\sigma_1, \dots, \sigma_n\}=\mathrm{Hom}(K,\overline{\Bbb Q})$ be the field homomorphisms to a fixed algebraic closure so that $\mathrm{Tr}_{K/\Bbb Q}=\sum_{i=1}^n \sigma_i$.
For a $n$ linearly independent elements $\alpha_1, \dots, \alpha_n \in K$ consider the $n \times n$ matrix $A=(\sigma_i(\alpha_j))_{i,j}$.
Then one has $A^TA=(b_{i,j})_{i,j}$ where $b_{i,j}=\sum_{k=1}^n\sigma_k(\alpha_i) \sigma_k(\alpha_j)=\mathrm{Tr}_{K/\Bbb Q}(\alpha_i\alpha_j)$
We see that $\det(A^TA)=\mathrm{Disc}(\alpha_1, \dots, \alpha_n)$
Now consider another $n$ linearly independent elements $\beta_1, \dots, \beta_n$. Let $T:K \to K$ be the linear transformation determined by $T\beta_j = \alpha_j$ for all $j$. Let $T$ be represented by the matrix $(t_{i,j}) \in \mathrm{GL}_n(\Bbb Q)$ so that we have $\sum_{j,k}t_{j,k}\beta_k=\alpha_j$
Because each $\sigma_i$ is $\Bbb Q$-algebra homomorphism we can apply it to this equation and obtain $\sum_{j,k}t_{j,k}\sigma_i(\beta_k)=\sigma_i(\alpha_j)$.
This means if we consider the matrix $B:=(\sigma_i(\beta_j))_{i,j}$, we have $TB=A$. As before with $A$, we have $\det(B^TB)=\mathrm{Disc}(\beta_1, \dots, \beta_n)$
But $TB=A$, so $\det(A^TA)=\det(T)^2\det(B^TB)$, so $\mathrm{Disc}(\alpha_1, \dots, \alpha_n) = \det(T)^2 \mathrm{Disc}(\beta_1, \dots, \beta_n)$
Now assume that $\Bbb Z\alpha_1+ \dots+\Bbb Z\alpha_n \subset \Bbb Z\beta_1 + \dots +\Bbb Z\beta_n$. Then $T$ has integer entries. We can thus find the Smith normal form of $T$, this means that there are $U,V \in \mathrm{GL}_2(\Bbb Z)$ such that $UTV=\mathrm{diag}(a_1, \dots, a_n)$ for integers $a_1, \dots, a_n$.
We can think of $U$ and $V$ as automorphisms (base-changes over $\Bbb Z$) of the two lattices. We obtain from this that $\Bbb Z\beta_1 + \dots + \Bbb Z\beta_n/\Bbb Z \alpha_1 + \dots + \Bbb Z\alpha_n \cong \Bbb Z/a_1 \Bbb Z \oplus \dots \oplus \Bbb Z/a_n \Bbb Z$, so that the index of $\Bbb Z \alpha_1 + \dots + \Bbb Z\alpha_n$ in $\Bbb Z\beta_1 + \dots + \Bbb Z\beta_n$ is $\prod_{i=1}^n |a_i|=|\det(T)|$ (using that $U$ and $V$ have determinant $\pm 1$)
Plugging this into $\mathrm{Disc}(\alpha_1, \dots, \alpha_n) = \det(T)^2 \mathrm{Disc}(\beta_1, \dots, \beta_n)$ proves the result.
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Let $\beta_1,\ldots,\beta_n \in O_K$ be an integral basis for $O_K$. Also, let $\alpha_1,\ldots,\alpha_n$ be the roots of $f$, where $\alpha = \alpha_1$. Then there exists $A \in \mathcal{M}_{n\times n}(\mathbb{Z})$ st $$\alpha_{j} = \sum^{n}_{i=1} A_{ij}\beta_{i}$$ for $i\leq j\leq n$. Then we have that $$\text{disc}(\alpha_{1},\ldots,\alpha_{n}) = \text{det}(A)^{2}\text{disc}(\beta_1,\ldots,\beta_n)$$Note that if $\text{disc}(\alpha_{1},\ldots,\alpha_{n})$ is squarefree, then we have that $\text{det}(A)^{2} = \pm 1$. So therefore $\alpha_{1},\ldots,\alpha_{n}$ generate $O_K$, and thus form an integral basis.
Finally, we note that $1,\alpha,\ldots,\alpha^{n-1} \in O_K$ are a basis for $K$, and we have that $$\text{disc}(1,\alpha,\ldots,\alpha^{n-1})=\text{disc}(f)=\text{disc}(\alpha_{1},\ldots,\alpha_{n})$$So therefore $1,\alpha,\ldots,\alpha^{n-1}$ are an integral basis for $O_K$, and $O_K=\mathbb{Z}[\alpha]$.