More generally: suppose $d$ and $d'$ are both squarefree integers, both different from $1$, and consider $F_1 = \mathbb{Q}(\sqrt{d})$ and $F_2 = \mathbb{Q}(\sqrt{d'})$.
They are both isomorphic as $\mathbb{Q}$-vector spaces, since they are both of dimension $2$; or more explicitly, every element of $F_1$ can be written uniquely as $a+b\sqrt{d}$ with $a,b\in\mathbb{Q}$ (unique because $\sqrt{d}\notin\mathbb{Q}$), and every element of $F_2$ can be written uniquely as $x+y\sqrt{d'}$ with $x,y\in\mathbb{Q}$. The map $f\colon F_1\to F_2$ given by $f(a+b\sqrt{d}) = a + b\sqrt{d'}$ is additive and $\mathbb{Q}$-homogeneous, clearly bijective, so $F_1$ and $F_2$ are isomorphic as vector spaces over $\mathbb{Q}$.
However, they are never isomorphic as fields; clearly, $d$ is a square in $F_1$. I claim $d$ can only be a square in $F_2$ if $d=d'$. Indeed, if$(x+y\sqrt{d'})^2 = d$. That means that $x^2 + d'y^2 + 2xy\sqrt{d'} = d$, hence $2xy = 0$ and $x^2+d'y^2=d$. If $x=0$, then $d=d'y^2$, so clearing denominators you get $da^2 = d'b^2$ for some $a,b\in\mathbb{Z}$, $\gcd(a,b)=1$; since both $d$ and $d'$ are squarefree, it follows that $|a|=|b|=1$, so $d=d'$. If $y=0$, then $d=x^2$, so $d$ is the square of a rational, contradicting the fact that it is a squarefree integer different from $1$. Thus, of $d$ is a square in $F_2$, then $d=d'$. Hence, if $F_1\cong F_2$, then $d=d'$ (converse is immediate).
Now, since every quadratic extension of $\mathbb{Q}$ is equal to $\mathbb{Q}(\sqrt{d})$ for some squarefree integer $d$ different from $1$, you conclude that any two quadratic extensions are either identical or not isomorphic as fields.
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It seems that your problem is in checking that your map is a homomorphism.
I claim that no map $\varphi: \mathbb Q(\sqrt{-3}) \to \mathbb Q(\sqrt 3)$ can be a field homomorphism.
For assume such a map existed, then it would have to fix $\mathbb Q$ and we have that $-3 = \varphi(-3) = \varphi(\sqrt{-3} \sqrt{-3}) = \varphi(\sqrt{-3}) \varphi(\sqrt{-3})$ implying that $\varphi(\sqrt{-3}) \in \mathbb Q(\sqrt 3)$ squares to $-3$ which is a contradiction as $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 3) \subset \mathbb R$.