Ok, lets do the first part to begin.
I don't really want to give you the answer straight out.
How much do you understand probability to begin with?
So EXACTLY 1 white means we want the probability for the event
(W,B,B) OR (B,W,B) OR (B,B,W)
since these are the only possible ways that we could draw exactly one white, agreed?
Can you calculate this probability on your own?
Do you understand how to think about "AND" and "OR" in probability terms? If not I can explain further, but you haven't given many details.
Then for the second part, we want AT LEAST 1 white.
That is, we want either
1 white, OR 2 whites, OR 3 whites
agreed?
So using the method of part a), you should be able to calculate the probability for 2 whites and the probability for 3 whites, and then using the "AND" and/ or "OR" laws for probabilities you should be able to answer this second part of the question.
Does this help?
If you give me some more details of which bit you are getting stuck at I can help you further if you need.
In your example of 9 white marbles and 1 black marbles, you say that if you pick 1 marble out of those 10 3 times, you have a chance of 30% of picking the black marble (at least) once. That is actually a very common reasoning mistake, and you basically realized this yourself, for when you pick a marble $10$ times, we know it is of course not going to be $100$%, and when you pick a marble $20$ times, it is certainly not $200$%!
So, what is the mistake? Well, as again you say yourself, we can pick the same marble multiple times (indeed, when we pick $20$ marbles, we have to pick at least one marble multiple times). And in fact that goes for the black marble as well. And that has the following effect:
Let's just look at the case where we twice pick 1 marble (again, with replacement). Let $B1$ be the event of picking the black marble for the first pick, and let $B2$ be the event for picking the black marble the second time. Now, we can all agree that $P(B1)=10$%, and that $P(B2)=10$%. OK! But what is the chance of picking the black marble at least once between these two picks? That is, what is the chance of picking the black marble at the first or the second pick?
By the mistaken logic, it would be $P(B1) +P(B2)=20$%. However, that only works if $B1$ and $B2$ are mutually exclusive, i.e. if they cannot both happen. But that is of course not the case: they can both happen. And it is because they can both happen, that the chance of either one of them happening will be less then the sum of them happening by themselves.
Here is the general formula that is always true:
$$P(A \cup B) = P(A) + P(B) -P(A \cap B)$$
In here, $P(A)$ and $P(B)$ are of course the chances of $A$ and $B$ happening as individual events. $P(A \cup B)$ is the chance of either $A$ or $B$ happening (or both), and $P(A \cap B)$ is the chance of $A$ and $B$ both happening.
Now, if $A$ and $B$ are mutually exclusive, then $P(A \cap B)=0$, and hence $P(A \cup B)=P(A) +P(B)$. But if they can both happen, then $P(A \cap B)>0$, and hence $P(A \cup B)<P(A) +P(B)$
Going back to the black marble case, $P(B1 \cap B2)=\frac{1}{10}\cdot \frac{1}{10}=\frac{1}{100}=1$% Hence, $P(B1 \cup B2)=P(B1) +P(B2)-P(B1 \cap B2)=19$% ... and not 20%!
And of course likewise, picking a marble 3 times will end up giving us a less than 30% chance of picking the black marble at least once, and picking a marble 10 or 20 times will actually end up well below 100%
Here is yet another way to think about it. Suppose you number the marbles 1 through 10, with the black one being number 1. Now, bewen the first two picks, what can be the possible outcomes? Well, you could pick marble 7 for the first pick, and marble 4 for the second. Or: marble 3 for the first, and marble 3 again for the second. We can write these outcomes as $(7,4)$ and $(3,3)$ respectively.
Now, how many possible outcomes can there be for the first two picks? Well, any outcome is $(x,y)$ wih both $x$ and $y$ ranging from 1 to 10, so that gives us 100 possible outcomes. OK! And how many outcomes lead to the black marble being picked the first time? That is of course all the outcomes of the form $(1,y)$, of which there are 10 ... which is why $P(B1)=\frac{10}{100}=10$%. And there are also 10 outcomes of the form $(x,1)$, which is why $P(B2)=\frac{10}{100}=10$% as well. OK! But are there 20 possible outcomes that contain a $1$? NO! Because when you add the 10 and 10 you double-count the $(1,1)$ outcome. So, there are really only 19 outcomes out of the 100 possible outcomes where you have a 1.
OH, and there are only 18 in which you pick the black marble exactly once, so this also tells you that a question like 'what is the chance of picking the black marble when you pick $x$ times?' is ambiguous, because it is not clear whether you mean 'picking the black marble at least once' or 'picking the black marble exactly once.
So finally, what then is the chance of getting at least one black marble when picking 3 times? Well, the easiest way to calculate that is not to consider the outcomes where you get the black marble in the first, second, and third try, and then try to remove the double- or even triple-counts, but rather to consider the possible outcomes where you do not get any black marble at all between these three picks. And how many possibilities are there for that? Well, out of the $10*10*10=1000$ possible putcomes $(x,y,z)$ there are $9*9*9=729$ where you don't get any black marble, and so there are $1000-729=271$ possible outcomes where there is at least 1 black marble, making the chance of getting at least one marble $\frac{271}{1000}=27.1$%
In terms of probabilities, you can do this as well:$ P(B1\cup B2 \cup B3)=1-P((B1 \cup B2 \cup B3)^C)=1-P(B1^C \cap B2^C \cap B3^C)=1-P(B1^C) \cdot P(B2^C) \cdot P(B3^C)= 1- 0.9 \cdot 0.9 \cdot 0.9 =1-0.729=0.271$
OK! And for picking the black marble at least once when picking a marble 10 times? Then it would be $1-(0.9)^{10}\approx 0.65$
And so what is the general formula for the probability of picking one specific object $y$ at least once out of $x$ objects, when making $n$ picks with replacement?
It will be $1-(\frac{1}{x})^n$
Best Answer
The answer to both cases in your first question is $0.3$. There is no difference whether you pick the marbles all three at once or one by one.
To convince you on this consider calculating the probability of the second case as:
Since these are disjoint events (only one can happen) we can just add their probabilities together.
Total is $\frac3{10} = 0.3$
Perhaps the mistake you did was to calculate the probabilities like this: $\frac1{10} + \frac9{10}\cdot \frac1{10} +\frac9{10}\cdot \frac9{10}\cdot \frac1{10} = 0.271$. I hope you can see now why this is a mistake. It's because we are not accounting for the removed marbles when we compute the probabilities for the second and third tries, and we treat these events as if there are still 10 marbles in the box.
As far as the second question goes the answer is that it does not matter. Unless the marbles do not have a uniform probability to be the black one, order does not matter, and so which ones you pick does not matter too.