Connectedness can be a bit of an abstruse concept to work with. It's often easier to work with the stronger concept of path-connectedness (a space is path-connected if any two points can be joined by a continuous path in the space). Not every connected space is path-connected, but for those that are, this is generally the easiest way to prove connectedness.
In this case, for example, it's almost trivial to see that $X$ is path-connected: two points in the same disc can be joined by a straight-line path, while two points in different discs can be joined by a composite path formed of two line segments meeting at the tangency point.
The problem is not with your understanding of divided, but rather with your understanding of closed. In the space $X=(0,1)\cup(2,3)$, the sets $(0,1)$ and $(2,3)$ are closed. This is because the topology $\tau$ on $X$ is the subspace (or relative) topology inherited from $\Bbb R$. A subset $U$ of $X$ is open in $X$ if and only if there is a $V\subseteq\Bbb R$ such that $V$ is open in $\Bbb R$ and $V\cap X=U$. Of course $(0,1)$ is open in $\Bbb R$, and $(0,1)\cap X=(0,1)$, so $(0,1)$ is open in $X$. By the definition of closed set this means that $X\setminus(0,1)$ is closed in $X$. And $X\setminus(0,1)=(2,3)$, so $(2,3)$ is closed in $X$. A similar argument shows that $(0,1)$ is also closed in $X$. Indeed, both of these sets are clopen (closed and open) as subsets of $X$, even though they are only open as subsets of $\Bbb R$. Openness and closedness depend not just on the set, but on the space in which it is considered.
You have the same problem with your first example: the sets $[0,1]$ and $[2,3]$ are clopen in the subspace $Y=[0,1]\cup[2,3]$ of $\Bbb R$, not just closed. For example, $[0,1]=\left(-\frac12,\frac32\right)\cap Y$, and $\left(-\frac12,\frac32\right)$ is open in $\Bbb R$, so $[0,1]$ is open in $Y$.
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Take two points $x,y \in X$. Since $\Bbb{Q}^2$ is countable and the number of lines going through $x$ is uncountable (in bijection with $[0,\pi)$), there are uncountably many lines going through $x$ and contained in $X$. The same applies to $y$. Therefore, you can find lines going through $x$ and $y$ respectivly that are not parralel, and thus intersect each other. This proves that $X$ is connected.